The instruction begins

"I am twenty three years old, dark haired, slim and attractive. I am sexually experienced but not in the manner that I wish to be. Please respond to me, I beg you. Make me the free woman that I want to be, make me yours..."

In order to create the perfect submissive you must break the individual down, remove all sense of individual desire and autonomy. Without self determination the initiate will follow your instructions and do your bidding, whatever is your will. With Gemima I knew that it would not be a strighforward task, the girl had already enjoyed several sexual relationships of a conventional nature and no doubt during those liaisons she will have expressed sexual preferences, asked for the man to pleaure her, told him what felt good, how to use his toongue just so...

To be a submissive the women must give herself completely and without reservation. Her master will pleasure her if it is his wont. He will dominate her, he will decide what and when she eatsm when she sleeps, how she will be chastised when she has failed to follow instructions to the letter. Some women adapt more easily, more naturally to this concept than others. Usually they have had a more sheltered upbringing, there has been a strong father figure, their first sexual experiences have been unsatisfactory, they need a man of substance who will cherish and adore them and use them at his will. They yearn to be dominated.

For other women it is just a fantasy, sustained by reading literature written by women who would never dream of living out the life of their characters, fraudulent representations of repressed desires read by middle aged, middle class housewives who would raise merry hell if their husbands ever attempted to enjoy them in the manner of their heroines...

Then there is the third category, girls like Gemima who want to be a submissive but who have never truly experienced the freedom that it brings and are under an illusion that the 'tap' can be turned on and off at her will. This is the spirit that must be broken...